B.J. Novak Admits His Relationship With Mindy Kaling Was A “Romantic, Toxic, Boundaryless Mess” buzzfeed.com 1 year ago B.J. Novak Admits His Relationship With Mindy Kaling Was A “Romantic, Toxic, Boundaryless Mess” "We were in love with each other, and we were reckless idiots." Share this: